Realization - Buddha's

The highest level of realisation that lord Buddha attained is being married and as a family member can easily be enlightened.
He was felt bad for leaving his family even after got married.
For enlightenment and self realisation and service to the humanity and for all such spiritual services....
Bramachari sanyasam sanyassins nun state is not at all required and mandate to be followed.
If one is really self controlled married life is the shortest route for enlightenment.

Being a father for even more than a kid
Being a husband
Being a wife
Being a mother
Being an employee
Being an employer
Being a common man

Still very much we can get enlightened, become realised human and still in better way we can do spiritual services along with our family.

So... Stay self esteem, stay connected to good any where and every where.
Any spiritual master can take you only upto the water body but seeking and swimming and coming out is what we have to do on our own. Only self can be helped.

Food can be offered but eating and digesting is in receivers hand.

Pranams